I am right away dating the male 10 yrs comparison than me, he’s divorced has 3 young kids from his fifteen year marriage. We been dating for 7 months right away you am twenty-seven as well as have no young kids though have longed for the single for the couple of years you only got out of the 10 year attribute that brought us no children. My beloved is starting to try the annulment so you can detect the baby……I need the little advice. you unequivocally wish to concieve as well as you am funny about him. He has the fifteen yr aged son, thirteen yr aged son as well as an 8 year aged daugter.
Of march you adore him, you tumble for him some-more as well as some-more bland that’s because you am deliberation the family with him.
Thanks for the being check Denise, though you know the cavalcade as well as peaceful to Love him as well as all the kids sufficient to have it work. By the approach should you detect the lady she will have your name as the center name!
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Get real. Your hubby is 37. He is going to spend 10 grand on a very painful surgery. With all this in mind, there is a 30% chance you will be pregnant by the time he is 40.
That means by the time he is 55, he will have a 15 year old defiant teenager on his hands. What is the likely hood that he is going to be emotionally up to dealing with that? I’m sure he is capable of handling the 15 year old he has right now. But keep in mind that he is 37. What will happen when the generation gap is even wider? What will happen when he has fewer faculties to call upon? Are you strong enough to deal with that?
I have far too many friends that started having children when they were 40, or older. The story is pretty much the same for all of them.
Good luck.
Go for it, and like I like to say, practice, practice, practice!!!!!
You have only been dating 7 months and you are thinking about having a baby with this man? Are you only wanting his sperm? Because nowhere did you mention the word "love"….
You are old enough to know what you want….but please weigh all the pros and cons of having a child with a man that has been divorced and has 3 other children….You may be biting off more than you can chew with a man that you have only been dating for 7 months…Best of luck….
Vasectomy stays!
Well, I hope somebody has sat you down and told you how it works for second marriages. This is how:
1) the kids
2) the ex wife
3) you
4) your potential baby
The reversals don’t always work depending on how the vasectomy was done. Remember you will be dealing with the ex and the kids for the rest of your marriage to him. Are you ready to be third on his list? No matter what he tells you, this is how it’s going to work. That is why there is such high failure in second marriages.
More importantly than the other posts, traditionally but not always usually 2 people get married, then they settle into their life and then they have a child. Call me old fashioned but that is the way that seems to work best. I dated a man for four years before I married him, we were divorced within 2 years. He became a cheater and very abusive. So you never know what you will get no matter how long you know someone before getting married. but you know girl, do your thing.
Reversal is possible. I have seen someone who had the exact same circumstance.
He was married, had 3 children, had a vasectomy, divorced,
had a reversal, had another child, and divorced again.
Tho the reversal works, it’s NO guarantee of a lasting marriage.
Best Wishes……..
ok yes a reversal works. however the odds of him being able to concieve or even producing lil swimmers goes down greatly every year, after three most docs dont want to do it because the chances are so low. i have had it done after two and still waiting for me and my wife to get pregnant. in my oppinion your best option will to be getting him tested, the doc will stick a needle in his taint and pull out the sperm to see if he is still producing. then if he is i would sugjest the doc go in and pull sperm and put them where they are supposed to be in order for you to get pregnant. like i said i went through the reversal proccess and the pain was about 100times worse then the vasectomy was. had i know that at the time i would have chosen the couple of big needles.
The chances of a reversal being successful go down for every year after the vasectomy was done, because the body starts to treat the sperm as a foreign body and attacks the protein that they are made of, eventually rendering the male totally sterile. Before looking to have a child, it would be worth checking if its even a possibility.
But as to you having a child with him.
Are you sure that the possibility of having a long desired for child is part of the attraction? And how do you think you would feel about him, and your relationship, if you are told he can’t father your child? (Are YOU sure that you can have children?) Is having the child as important/more important than the relationship? Has he confirmed that he is willing to expend the time, effort, energy, and to make the financial commitment, to try for another child?
And have you considered all the complications of getting involved with a divorced man, with an ex wife, and teen and pre-teen children? Have you discussed how you two feel about them, and important things like discipline, etc.
There is a lot to consider, not the least that the two of you have a firm commitment to each other BEFORE attempting to bring a child into the mix.
I guess the amount of years since the vasectomy makes a big difference in the reversal. A vasectomy is usually a permanent solution so it’s not guaranteed that a reversal will work. It depends on the doctor and how he performed it.
Chance of rebuilding an open vas
Chance of pregnancy
Less than 3 years97 % 76 %
3 to 8 years 88 % 53 %
9 to 14 years 79 % 44 %
Greater than 15 years71 % 30 %
Seems like alot of baggage to me. Why don’t you spend the rest of your life with somone who doesn’t have kids nor ever married. Think about this………..I hope it works out. Good luck.
Your both CRAZY! As for that list I’m 37 divorced 2 children One a teen the other 9. They come first and that’s the end of the list. I’d pee on my ex-wife if she was on fire(if i have to pee). And we didn’t have an ugly divorce.
7 months is crazy.
He had the Vas because he didn’t want any more kids!
Now he’s considering it because you want children(Think about that long and hard)
I can almost guarantee he’s considering this because he doesn’t want to lose you and thinks he will if he doesn’t try to give you what you want . I’ve been there. That’s not LOVE that’s FEAR!
DON’T DO IT!