To people who have had a vasectomy when they were young. Did you regret it?

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I am twenty-five as well as am severely meditative about removing one. When we got comparison similar to thirty or 40 did we wish to get the annulment or have been we still happy with your choice? Thanks.

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The number one reason for vasectomy regret is "young age at the time of vasectomy". The prolific vasectomy cheerleader above) has a famous study of one (himself) and he is very happy with his choice. (I am happy with his choice also…)

Reversal is expensive, not covered by insurance, and it takes 6 to 12 weeks to fully recover. Long term pregnancy rates after reversal are around 50% in two years time. So, it is an option, but so are condoms, IUD’s, oral contraceptives for women, and many other birth control methods exist that are quite effective (up to 99% effective, like vasectomy).

These other birth control methods are not associated with a 10 to 15% risk of chronic pain (like vasectomy) or a 2 to 5% incidence of permanent sexual side effects. (see my website below that discusses this risk that is frequently not discussed with men prior to vasectomy in many cases).

I was 21. I am 43 with no regrets. I have no children. I only wish more of my friends did the same, so they would not wine so much.

They expect me to offer up a shoulder when they can not pay their bills due to the high child support installments. It was their choice. Back when I had mine a few of them told me I was giving up a big part of manhood. Maybe I have it all wrong, but I think the guy who is crying in his beer lost something, not me.

I know I made the right choice. That is most obvious to me when I walk around my workplace…. Most of the people who have children have photographs of them in their cubes. Most of them have no photographs of their spouses, even though they wear wedding bands. Those who are childfree have photographs of their spouses.

I have a lot of friends who also had vasectomies in their early 20′s. Some had children and some did not. I have yet to meet anyone claiming regrets.

Reversals are a waste of money. Keep in mind that vasectomy reversal doctors want money and they are more than willing to sell "false hope" to get it.

Edit: The sophomoric attack from the self proclaimed doctor was expected (and was once again reported).

Until recently belonged to a “child-free” club. Most men and women in “child-free” clubs obtain sterilization in their early 20’s. Most of the members were well into their 40’s and 50’s. If there were anyone with regrets they would hardly be members of a “child-free” club sitting around drinking and laughing.

Anyway, the net of the matter is if you want to have a passport full of stamps, a good education, a Rolex, and to look 10 years younger than your real age, then do not have children. If you want to be a lemming then by all means do what most people do.

Babies…. Even a cave man can make them.

I’m only 22, and I don’t want to do that, b/c I’d like to be a dad someday. However, If you are sure you want to live a childfree lifestyle go ahead and do it. That’s all I can say about this. Also Kiene, not all men go and make a child and leave a woman. There are men who are happily married w/ kids who don’t pay child support, they share the responsibilities w/ their spouse.

Anyway, be sure to discuss this w/ whomever you want to be w/(assuming you are looking for a mate). Discuss the fact that you don’t want kids.

well if your name is STEVE.. then i would say you should have got one when you were 13 so you wouldnt have fucked so many girls lifes up! and so there would be no more people like YOU on this planet.

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