Husband had a vasectomy in prev. marriage – we want kids – what is best plan?
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My father had the vasectomy when he was with his ex-wife. She was unequivocally abusive, as well as he did not wish to move some-more young kids in to which kind of an environment. He had the vasectomy about 5 years ago. Unfort. income is an emanate for us. Which is the improved route? Vasectomy annulment or spermatazoa extraction? If you go with extraction, how usually is it done?
Adoption is not an option. you have the stepson already who is 5 years old. My father as well as you usually unequivocally wish to have kids of the own. If you can’t, afterwards you will have to be happy with usually my stepson (nothing wrong with that) though if during all possible, you would similar to to have the own biological children.
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Vasectomy reversal up to $12,000(USD)
Sperm extraction and IVF up to $18,000(USD)
Some doctors will charge more, some will charge less. You’ll have to research doctors in your area.
A sperm extraction is a micro-surgical procedure where they go in directly to the testes and extract sperm. The procedure takes only a few minutes, and men are usually recovered in a day.
Good luck.
The less time between the vasectomy and the vasectomy reversal, the higher the rate of a successful reversal. The success of the procedure will also depend on the skill of the doctor performing the surgery.
The procedure costs around $5,000, but the cost will depend on the doctor. It is important to select a doctor that performs the procedure regularly and has high success rates.
My husband had a reversal in March of this year..We are still actively trying for 7 months now.It was successful but his count is low but they are there and it only takes one..reversals are cheaper and the sucess rates are higher than mentioned..good luck..you should look up the success rates before making a decision..If money is an option than reversal may be the way to go..
If adoption is not an option, then just don’t have kids. Show the world you have evolved above “cavewoman”. My girlfriend and I are perfectly happy with none, and we know other couples that feel the same. The last thing this world needs is more kids.
If you still insist on having them, you are looking at a bill of better than 5K$. The success rate is about 25% for vasectomy reversal, and somewhat higher for TESE. You won’t get any ethical doctor to do these surgeries. Most are scammers.
There are two common types of scam associated with the industry. First is the one where the doctor keeps your hopes up, and will continue recommending different procedures until you can’t pay any more. My girlfriend worked in a clinic where the doctor (from India) did exactly that.
The other scam, is where they try to get you to sign up for financing (keep in mind that insurance does not cover any of this stuff). The scam is nothing more than identity theft. They often will use the name of some real clinic, like Forerunners healthcare, or some other (I am using Forerunners as an example, I am not indorsing them). The scammer is not affiliated with the clinic. Other times they use the name of a made up clinic that has a web site and everything. They don’t offer anything. Most of these scams are run out of India, Indonesia, China, and Mexico.
There are several SPAMmers that operate on Yahoo Answers that will tell you their cousin got the procedure in India, Mexico, or some other place. They are the ones to watch out for.
If you still plan to do this, ONLY go to a place that one of your co-workers, used before. Otherwise do the right thing – Adopt!
The best bet is to look those things up on the internet and see which each procedure entails. Then call around to differant doctors and see if they will do the surgery and how much it would cost. Keep in mind if you do a vasectomy reversal that is one procedure, if you do sperm extraction then you have the cost for that and then the cost for them to implant the sperm with your eggs and implant them into you. More than likely the vasectomy reversal is way cheaper!!
I would not reccomend doing a vasectomy reversal, they have a very low success rate. I am not sure how they do sperm extraction.
Contact your Dr or a Urologist and they will be able to give you options and prices.
Check it out with a good Urologist — have you considered
adoption ?
This sounds familiar except it was because he couldnt stop cheating on his wife and kept having children outside the marriage. So he had a vasectomy. lolol He has 4 that I know of, who knows how many more he has. He would also say that he had a vasectomy because the wife was abusive. Total lie!! He was pretty abusive. The guy recently got married…. He didnt step up to the plate and has to pay child support. Poor new wife has to pay to have a baby. I’d say go for the sperm extraction. Can’t trust some men. Babies may just start popping up outta everywhere. lololol Look up the procedures. Good luck!!!